Have you ever wondered if your beloved pet is still watching over you? Do you sometimes feel their presence and wish you could know for sure? What if you could share messages ask them questions — about their memorable moments with you, their experience of the afterlife, their soul contracts with you, or if they ever plan to reincarnate back to you?
Well, that’s exactly what a pet medium can help you do. By asking the right questions, you can gain comfort, clarity, and even a sense of connection with your furry friend once again.
To help you get the most from your session, I’ve put together a list of 17 heartfelt questions to ask a pet medium — ones that will open the door to meaningful messages and cherished memories.
1. Can you describe my pets personality?
One of the first questions to add to your list is a question that can validate whether or not your animal communicator has connected with your animal in-spirit. This question allows for very specific information about their character, how they behaved, and all those things that made them special. I highly recommend adding this question to the list, you won’t regret it.
2. How are you? Are you happy and at peace?
When my animals crossed over all I wanted to know was how they were doing. This is particularly important when our animal’s death has been painful, traumatic, or unexpected. These final moments can leave us with a bitter taste in our mouths and even feelings of guilt and regret. Asking them how they feel, if they are happy or at peace can provide a great sense of comfort and peace of mind.
3. How do you feel about your passing?
Speaking to our animals about their passing can be very healing for us and our animals. This question can help us better understand our pet’s experience and feelings connected to their passing.
If you had to make difficult decisions about your pet’s end-of-life care, this question can provide closure and understanding. You can also ask them if they understood why you had to make those decisions.
4. Were you ready to cross over?
Although this question directly ties into the question above it can validate what we intuitively felt in the days leading up to our animal’s transition into the afterlife. Although our animals may want to cross over, they may want to stay a little longer to fulfill any needs or to say goodbye to their loved ones.
By asking this question we acknowledge their needs and can help them let go of any unfulfilled needs or unfinished business. Such as saying goodbye to another member of the family and letting them know how much you love them. Sharing these messages can be healing for all parties, the animal in spirit and their family, pets included.
5. Are you enjoying your time in the spirit world?
I love asking animals in heaven about their experiences on the other side. They love sharing talking about their routine, their favorite activities, and their companions on the other side too.
Sometimes our animals are met by family and furry friends when they cross over and other times they decide to work on their spiritual development so that they can reincarnate as soon as possible.
6. What did you most enjoy about our relationship?
Another great question to ask our animals in spirit is what they most enjoyed about our relationship. They love talking about the moments you shared, how you made them feel loved, and how they felt about you.
A lot of the time our animals want to tell us how perfect we were to them and all our beautiful characteristics. They cherish being by our sides and often remind us of the beauty that lies within, which don’t fully acknowledge in ourselves.
7. What soul lessons did you come here to teach me?
Many of you will agree that our pets are angels in disguise. They want us to feel unconditionally and support us in our spiritual journey and development. They know what soul lessons we need to learn so that we can transcend our state of being and become enlightened.
8. Did you fulfil your mission here on earth?
By asking our animals if they have completed their mission we can get some idea about our animals’ future plans. Our pets have shorter lifespans so they do as much as possible in the time they are given.
Some animals may wish to reincarnate to continue with their mission while others will hand over their job to another pet. They will pick the scenario that will most help you in your spiritual development.
9. Do you have any messages, wisdom or advice?
Asking our animals if they have any messages for us, our family members, or other pets is a no-brainer. This allows the animal to guide the communication and share what they think is most important for everyone’s highest good. We don’t always know what is best for ourselves, our families, and pets, but our animals sure do!
10. Do you know how I feel?
Our animals always know how we feel and this is also true after they have moved into the afterlife. By asking our animals how we feel, we feel less alone and know that they have our back. Although we may no longer see our animals they never really leave us and this is a great way to validate their presence in our lives.
11. How can i heal from this grief of losing you?
Asking your deceased pet how you can heal their loss is absolutely profound. Our animals know us so well, sometimes better than we know ourselves. They don’t want to see us suffer and will do anything in their power to help us move forward and cope with our grief.
12. Do you visit from heaven or watch over me?
The bond with our animals is eternal and can never be lost. But some pets feel the need to visit their parents and watch over them. This usually happens when their family members are struggling with the loss of their beloved pet. Asking your animals if they visit you from the afterlife can validate or confirm their presence in your life.
13. How can I know when you are visiting me?
Asking our animals for signs when they visit is a great way to validate our experience and recognise them when they are present. Some pet parents see, hear, or feel their animals around them for days, weeks, months, years, and even decades after passing.
Many convince themselves that they are imagining things or question their experiences. Over time, they may feel like their efforts were futile and visiting your altogether. If you think your animals are visiting have a read of “25 Common Signs From Deceased Pets” to find out if your pet is visiting you from heaven.
14. Are you planning to reincarnate?
Asking your deceased pet if they plan on reincarnating will either help us come to terms with their departure or reveal insights about their future reincarnation. When our pets decide to reincarnate they decide what species and breed to come back as.
Curious about how long reincarnation might take? Discover why some pets take longer than other to reincarnate? If you believe your pet may have returned to you, discover helpful tips in our guide: 6 Ways to Find Your Reincarnated Pet
15. Will you come back to me?
So, just because our animals decide to reincarnate, it doesn’t mean that they will choose to spend another reincarnation with us. They may have completed their mission and now wish to help another family, live in the wild, or have a totally different experience.
16. How will i know it is you?
Many pet parents want to know how they will find their reincarnated pets. They will find a way to reincarnate at the right time and moment so that you will find them. But we need to stay alert and keep our eyes peeled.
Sometimes our animals casually walk to our doorstep, other times they turn up at a local shelter or you may see a picture of an animal and feel it is them. Finding your reincarnated pet isn’t easy and depends on their choices. To know what it feels like when you have met your reincarnated pet have a read of the “13 common signs your pet has reincarnated”.
17. Have we shared past lives together?
As mentioned before it is possible that you have shared multiple lives with your animals. By asking our animals about our past lives together, we may discover that our animals have come back to us in many forms. Asking them about their past lives can reveal causes of fears and anxieties that may have been exhibited in their last life.
Frequently Asked Questions About Pet Mediums
What is a pet medium?
A pet medium is an animal communicator that specialises in connecting with pets in the afterlife. They can share messages from your furry (or feathery or scaly) friend to help you feel closer to them.
How can a pet medium help me?
If you’re missing your pet, a medium might help you feel more connected. They can pass along messages, share your pet’s thoughts and feelings and answer your questions.
Can mediums talk to pets that died many years ago?
Absolutely! Time doesn’t really matter in the spirit world. Many people connect with pets that have been gone for a long time.
What if I get really emotional during the session?
That’s totally normal! Losing a pet is hard, and hearing from them can bring up big feelings. A caring medium will understand and help you through it.
How do I get ready for a session with a pet medium?
Before your session, you will need to submit a phot and think about what you’d like to ask. Pick the questions that resonate with you and that you want answered.
Final thoughts
Talking to a pet medium can be a beautiful way to feel closer to your pet again. Whether you’re hoping for answers, comfort, or just a sign that your buddy is still watching over you, it’s all about keeping an open heart.
If you have any queries or want to share anything, you can use the comment section below.
What questions you have asked your pets in-spirit? Leave a message below, I love reading your comments.
Thanks for reading.
Hi Sandra, not sure from where to start, however, I have strong feeling that I came across your profile by God’s wish. I am devastated by my baby Luffy’s sudden tragic demise. Way painful, as if I have lost my life, my love, my everything. I am the only bread winner in my family. Being a single parent for the last 19 years, taking care of my son and my paralytic mother. I did adopt many strays during my childhood and they all lived the way they wanted to however I was unaware about so many things related to dogs or animals like training, feeding, medical conditions etc. After a long gap of 14-15 yrs, my office colleague brought Luffy 40 days young indian stray pup to my home to get him adopted and I couldn’t stop myself loving him and decided to adopt him. He was just 3yrs when I lost him last in December. Then I came to know about animal communication and tried connecting with a couple of communicators, however, they are no longer doing passed away pets communication. I went through the list of questions also and most of the questions are those which I seek answers to in relation to my Luffy. I sincerely feel it like a blessing to come across your profile and strongly feel that you can truly and genuinely help me to connect with my baby’s soul. My soul contract with him. However my only concern is that I can hardly afford your fee of energy exchange. I can try and arrange 13 USD. Please let me know if you can help me getting a closure and seek answers to my questions that have left me devastated inside. I really want my baby back in my life. The loss is unbearable. I can only beg you for help as a kind and wise human being my dear .please help me
Hi Tripti,
Thank you for reaching out and sharing your heart with me. I can feel the deep love you have for Luffy, and I’m truly sorry for your loss. Losing a soul connection like that—especially so suddenly—is absolutely heartbreaking.
Luffy clearly meant the world to you, and he was lucky to have such a loving home. I can tell how much care and strength you’ve poured into your life, your family, and your animals.
If you would like to connect with Luffy, you can do this using a guided meditation. Check out my YouTube channel, Sandra Martinez Medium. I have one on finding your reincarnated pet, and am in the process of uploading more meditations to help you connect and feel the presence of your animals in the afterlife.
With warmth and love,
Sandra