Have you noticed your pet acting differently since a loved one passed away?
Or are you curious if pets can truly feel sorrow like we do? Well, just like humans, our pets can experience grief, sadness, depression, and feel lonely.
By recognizing the signs of grief, we can better support our animals through the loss
Here are 13 Grieving symptoms your pet may experience after the passing of their loved ones including other pets:
1. They lose their appetite or overeat
If your pet suddenly isn’t interested in their food or is eating way more than usual, it could be a sign they’re feeling sad. Some pets might refuse their favorite treats, while others might start eating excessively as a way to comfort themselves. Keep an eye on their eating habits and try offering their favorite foods to entice them.
2. They Sleep a Lot or Having Trouble Sleeping
Grieving pets often sleep more. If your pet seems extra tired and naps a lot, they might be feeling down. They might choose to sleep in places where they used to spend time with their lost companion. This increased need for sleep is a way for them to cope with their emotions and process their loss. But some pets get restless and find it difficult to settle down at night. This can disturb their sleep routine and impact their emotional and physical well-being.
3. They become Clingy or needy
Your pet might start watching or following you everywhere or seem anxious when you’re not around. They need extra comfort during this time. They might become your little shadow, sticking close to you for reassurance. This clinginess is their way of seeking security and emotional support from you.
4. They keep barking or making Noises
Some pets might bark, meow, or whine more when they’re sad. Others might be quieter than usual. Your dog might howl more, or your cat might cry out in the night. These vocalizations can be their way of expressing their confusion and sorrow. Pay attention to these changes in their communication.
5. They Hide or Avoid interactions with others
If your pet is hiding more or not wanting to be around people, they could be grieving. They might find secluded spots to curl up in, away from the usual hustle and bustle of the household. This withdrawal is a sign that they are dealing with their grief and need some alone time to process their emotions.
6. They have Accidents in the House
Grieving pets might have accidents indoors, even if they’re usually good about going outside or using the litter box. Stress and sadness can affect their bathroom habits, leading to accidents. Be patient with them and try to maintain a calm and supportive environment to help them readjust.
7. They easily get agitated and feel Restless
You might notice your pet pacing or being unable to settle down. This restlessness can be a sign of grief. They might wander around the house, looking for their lost friend or simply unable to find a comfortable spot. This behavior indicates their inner turmoil and the difficulty they’re having in finding peace.
8. They Excessively lick themselves
Cats might lick themselves too much to comfort themselves, which can lead to bald spots. This excessive grooming is a self-soothing behavior, similar to how humans might bite their nails when anxious. Keep an eye on their grooming habits and try to provide distractions to help them relax.
9. They need extra attention and Cuddles
Some pets want more cuddles and affection when they’re sad. They might snuggle up to you more often. They may seek out your lap or follow you to bed, looking for physical closeness to feel safe and loved. Extra affection can be very comforting to a grieving pet.
10. They may look sad and become depressed
Just like people, pets can show signs of depression. They might seem less playful or energetic. You might notice their eyes look sad, or their body language appears droopy. They may lose interest in their favorite toys or activities. This general lack of enthusiasm is a clear sign they’re grieving.
11. They Loose Interest in Play
If your pet isn’t as excited about their favorite toys or games, it could be a sign they’re grieving. They might not chase after their ball or engage in playtime like they used to. This loss of interest in play is often a direct result of their sadness and can be one of the more noticeable changes in their behavior.
12. They become nervous or anxious
Grieving pets can become more anxious. They might show signs of nervousness, such as trembling, panting, or pacing. This anxiety can manifest in a heightened sensitivity to noises or new environments, making them more skittish or easily startled.
13. They show aggressive of destructive Behaviour
Some pets might show aggressive or destructive behaviors when they are grieving. They could start chewing on furniture, scratching walls, or showing aggression towards other pets or people. This behavior is often a result of their frustration and inability to cope with their emotions in a healthy way.
Final Thoughts
In times of loss, our pets can undergo profound emotional changes that mirror our own experiences of grief. From changes in eating and sleeping habits to seeking extra comfort or exhibiting restless behaviors, these signs can indicate that your pet is mourning the loss of a loved one.
By understanding and recognizing these signs, you can provide the compassionate support and care they need to navigate their grief and find comfort in your presence. Helping your pet through this difficult time involves patience, love, and a commitment to maintaining their well-being until they begin to heal and return to their usual selves.
Has your pet lost a member of their family? If so, what signs have you noticed? Leave a message in the comments box below. I love reading your messages.
